http://www.guiltybystander.org He who is not sure. Tue, 17 Feb 2009 07:17:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://www.guiltybystander.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Cam Wed, 25 Jul 2007 16:01:37 +0000 #comment-6 I am honoured to be another guilty one that you have always stood by. I am honoured to be another guilty one that you have always stood by.

]]> http://www.guiltybystander.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-4 Phil Sun, 22 Jul 2007 15:26:54 +0000 #comment-4 and maybe we can get together soon? and maybe we can get together soon?

]]> http://www.guiltybystander.org/about/comment-page-1/#comment-3 Phil Sun, 22 Jul 2007 15:26:27 +0000 #comment-3 you are right that people rarely name things for what they are. it is easier (for the person saying it) to say, ' sorry to hear about your mum', than naming what happened. 'I am sad to hear you Mum died of cancer'. but is it not easier for the person bereaved. It denies them the importance of their loss. I am sorry when I have done that... you are right that people rarely name things for what they are. it is easier (for the person saying it) to say, ‘ sorry to hear about your mum’, than naming what happened. ‘I am sad to hear you Mum died of cancer’. but is it not easier for the person bereaved. It denies them the importance of their loss.
I am sorry when I have done that…

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